im going through alot in my life right now
theres alot of new things
and im losing alot of the old

mending a broken heart isnt easy
expecially when your on crutches

im being given alot of advice
from alot of different people
but i believe i was just given the best advice of all

im going to share it with you all
because no matter who you are
or where you are
i believe it might be of some help

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you have strong will. if you want to do something i think you can do it.

you have to have that mentality to.

you also need to realise that things only affect us if we want them to affect us

if you want this to be an issue for you then its going to be.

it may sounds harsh but i couldnt give to bits about your problem right now. if im not involved, if its not going to effect me personally and hinder my ablility to continue on with what ever plan i have then what does it matter to me?

and i think you need to think that way too

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no matter how harsh it may seem this is the best advice any one could have given me. ever. i believe this will help me through anything else i encounter.

the reason he thinks its such good advice?
when people give advice they only say what they think you want to hear and what they think wont want to make you more upset. where i am a realist. i dont believe suger coating things, and making them seem better then they really are. if there is something to be know and i know it. i make sure i say the right thing...well i like to believe i do anyway

no matter who you are or what situation i believe this could help you, just like it has helped me.
thats why im putting it up here - so hopefully it can help someone.

if your in a situation ultimately its you and you alone who made the decisions leaving you there, and you alone who can get you out.
as you read this i hope you remember this and it helps you.
everyone is strong enough to overcome their hardships

thank you for all the advice
all credits to matt cupit.
even if the advice is now mine
like a car apparently

nb-if youve read this far, i cant change the mood set on the journal,
currently im quite pleased.